Wednesday, March 18, 2009

I used to think the problems and worries of one's life were meant to be kept to oneself. At the msot close family members and friends would know. My parents discussed their "issues" in hushed tones over phones or in carefully sealed intimate letters. Whether it was a break-up or a sick family member, one's problems weren't meant to be gossip...

How very ironical that these days, even the slightest hint of agony becomes a flashing update on the FBs and GTalks of the world! Suddenly everyone knows and 'shares' our grief (catfights, sorrow, tears, worry, failure)...the cyber world is the new best place to rant (see previous post for example). Who cares that one of the more explicit updates can become the latest food for gossip in town...This is the place where our life often ends up stripped to its basics...what a freaking tragedy! 

The bigger irony...I am lamenting this trend on the same medium

12 comments:

priyadarshini said...

AH!!!
so very true... so very effing true...!!!and how very lamentable.!
oh and i shouldn't be talking, coz MY last post has got to be the loudest rant in my cyber circle right now..

Tangerine said...

Perhaps with the overload of "updates" the world will stop gossiping.
u never know.
the world is a strange strange place after all.

coffee stain said...

talk about social animals.... we strive on gossip

~Moo-lah Buz!nezzz~ said...

heh heh....i actually like it... i mean why not....why not let others know about something which u mite not have told them otherwise.... :D...i quite like the idea....

inihos said...

Priyadarshini: well, even this post is just that, a rant

Tangerine: Oh that it is.

Coffee Stain: Sometimes, at the expense of others

Moolah: I don't have a problem with the idea, but rather with the way the idea is implemented

AnnaChronism said...

most people on these sites are adults, so are expected to make informed decisions...if they fuck it up or develop verbal [or in this case typo-graphical] loose potty, they deserve the backlash/gossip and ridicule

i <3 Facebook. Makes me money every week !

inihos said...

Annachronism: Well,that's there...one can always choose to be discreet

little boxes said...

there are many reasons why i love your blog
the topmost reason now is that you ALWAYS resonate my thoughts.

dreamy said...

hmmm. I agree. Happens

Sophia09_journo said...
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inihos said...

Little Boxes: Thankee :)

Dreamy: :)

reema said...

hehe. true true, bt smhw i can never fit my tragedies into single phrases.. so i've given up on them.